Shared expectations

A community built on respect

All members must be adults and treat one another as people with their own boundaries, choices, and expectations.

Required conduct

Respect consent, boundaries, and a member’s choice to end contact.
Be truthful about your intentions and do not impersonate another person.
Keep conversations respectful and free of harassment, threats, hate, and intimidation.
Use block and report controls when needed; do not retaliate against someone for using them.

Not allowed

Minors or attempts to contact, recruit, or expose minors to adult dating.
Scams, extortion, coercion, trafficking, exploitation, or requests for money.
Solicitation of paid sexual services or exchanging money for affection, dates, matches, or sexual access.
Sharing another person’s private information, images, or conversations without consent.

Safety actions

Reports are sent to an access-controlled review queue. Moderators can restrict an account or hide a profile while reviewing concerns. A report is not itself a finding. There is no claim that every report will be resolved within a specific time.