Memberships for men
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Prepare a profile before subscribing. Dating features and profile publication require verified age assurance; men also need an active, verified paid membership.
GOLD
A full membership for thoughtful discovery.
$99/month
- Active member profile
- Standard discovery filters
- Likes and mutual matching
- Private messaging with eligible members
- Gold membership badge
PLATINUM
PLATINUM
More control over discovery and profile visibility.
$199/month
- Everything in Gold
- Advanced lifestyle and compatibility filters
- Incognito browsing
- Additional private photo controls
- Monthly profile boost allowance: not configured
- Platinum membership badge
BLACK DIAMOND
BLACK DIAMOND
The most expansive membership tier.
$499/month
- Everything in Platinum
- Larger monthly profile boost allowance: not configured
- Priority customer support: staffing not confirmed
- Profile-review assistance: staffing not confirmed
- Black Diamond membership badge
- Concierge introductions: unavailable until staffing is confirmed
Current checkout and feature limits
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- Monthly USD prices shown exactly
- Checkout is a demo and accepts no payment
- Women use core dating features free
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Membership pays for platform features only. It does not buy affection, dates, matches, sexual access, or a guaranteed relationship.
| Features | GOLD | PLATINUM | BLACK DIAMOND |
|---|---|---|---|
| Dating features | |||
| Publish active profile | Included | Included | Included |
| Standard discovery filters | Included | Included | Included |
| Advanced lifestyle and compatibility filters | Not included | Included | Included |
| Likes, mutual matching, and eligible private messaging | Included | Included | Included |
| Incognito browsing and additional private photo controls | Not included | Included | Included |
| Monthly profile boosts | Not included | Allowance not configured | Larger allowance not configured |
| Additional services | |||
| Priority customer support | Not included | Not included | Not staffed yet |
| Profile-review assistance | Not included | Not included | Not staffed yet |
| Concierge introduction requests | Not included | Not included | Unavailable until staffed |
| Membership-level badge | Gold | Platinum | Black Diamond |
Renewal and cancellation terms are not configured. No subscription or charge can be started here. These monthly plan prices are not currently purchasable.